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Perspective Matters How you perceive the consultation is very important. Remember, the information I get
is coming from you. Think of me as an interpreter or a mediator.
My first task is to build a bridge to you. If you are still angry
at the traffic you just drove home in while thinking about your
boyfriend, for example, I will need to run interference in addition
to building the bridge. It helps to be open to receiving the
information you need. Come to the session with a sense of purpose.
See it as an unfolding process, not so much an event after which you
will have arrived.
Meaningful questions to ask are things that lead to your own personal empowerment. Life is short. Make every moment and every question count. Questions like "I've always wanted to be in business for myself...what keeps me from doing this?" or "Why do I always seem to end up in abusive relationships with large women with overbearing mothers?" are excellent questions for this purpose. Remember that you direct the session; the information is coming from you; my role is that of a mediator. When you look back on your life years from now, which would you prefer to see: a call where you asked about your hair color, or a life-changing, results-oriented moment that significantly impacted your life for many years following? Of course you can ask anything you want. It's your time and your money. However, when you do get up the courage to ask the really hard questions, remember that you asked. You should never "kill the messenger" if you don't like the message. Since by calling me with a purpose you are entrusting me with the great honor of being of assistance, my promise to you is to give you as much important and useful information as possible – even if it's not what you wanted to hear. The answers to your questions always reflect your
questions themselves: if you ask a specific question, you get a
specific answer; if you ask a general question,
the answer usually comes back general; if you make something up, the
answer that comes back to you will not be real either. The idea that
you get back what you put out is very relevant in how you phrase the
questions that you ask. Make every moment count!
Very specific questions are the key to making your consultation work for you. It's good to make a list ahead of time.
 Preparing For Your Consultation Preparing for your session is not
only a good idea, it's also a way of honoring yourself. The two
most significant things you can do to prepare are: (1) Make a list
of specific questions. Sometimes writing out your questions ahead
of time helps you to uncover "hidden questions" you never thought
about or that you may have forgotten; (2) Relax. A brief meditation
right before a session might be just the ticket. If you need a
guide, here is a wonderful
free
88 seconds of pure relaxation.
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